India VS Pakistan

I think Indians are way better than Pakistani’s considering the fact that we’re all so diverse & straightforward. All our neighbors care about is hurling insults at us. They can’t help but put the blame on India no matter what the situation be. They’re racist to the core. I’m pretty sure the points I mentioned above should suffice to prove my Nationalistic Pride.

Don’t you agree with me too? No? That is great. But if you do, please keep reading.

Growing up in a country other than India or Pakistan gives you enough exposure into various cultures & ways of life. I’ve met some of my family members who left India for Pakistan during the partition decades ago, in this foreign land.

Being an Indian, what comes to your mind on hearing about Pakistan? To tell you the truth the first thing on my mind is my childhood friend who is Pakistani. We literally grew up together. People would often mistake us for sisters. We studied in the same school till 5th grade. We often had little fights as children over India & Pakistan, both of us trying to prove our country’s better. As we grew older we would discuss at length about our cultures & similarities.

I remember going to my cousins place. They are from Lahore, Pakistan. My uncle would get quite racist at times. While all women would talk about clothes & fashion I would sit on a chair in the living room listening to men talk about politics. The fact that my uncle completely ignored was that we were Indian yet he would go on incessantly insulting India. My dad never said a lot during these conversations. He did speak when my uncle wouldn’t stop. But he was always polite.

Some of my Indian friends fathers support the Pakistani cricket team because they’re Muslim. It makes me laugh every time my friends vent out their angst against their fathers at school.

I think cricket is one game where people should support their own countries. It is abnormal to support some other team based on their religion.

Besides sports there should be no place for segregation of this kind. It makes me sick to see people with such mindsets.

One of my Pakistani uncle even said once that why was Pakistan made. At that time we simply laughed. But later I realised it was wrong. No country is perfect & neither are its citizens. Statements like these shouldn’t be uttered. It’s wrong to say such things about ones own country.

I understand that India & Pakistan were separated from each other. Putting blame on one another is useless at this point. Who is better than who, kon kiska baap hai? Notions such as these are of no help.

True nationalistic pride lies in firstly, respecting your own motherland and secondly, giving the same respect to other nations as well.

I was also shocked when one Pakistani, on realising we were Muslim said, “Oh, you’re Indian Muslim?”. I suppose that reaction was out of ignorance but still it was quite unexpected.

I’m an Indian Muslim and a proud one. I don’t hate Hindus. My Pakistani friends have had misconceptions about Hindus but I always tell them that they’re people too, just like you & me. A mere difference between religion doesn’t make them or us monsters.

At the end of the day, there are good people & bad all around the globe. You can choose who you want to be. It’s not religion or nationality that influences their nature, it’s their thinking & how they see other human beings that makes them good/bad.

All the incidents mentioned above have actually happened. I’ve seen people with different viewpoints which I respect because they’re free to speak their mind. However, so am I. The only purpose behind this post is to depict how we’re not really that different. At the end of the day we’re just people, bones & flesh on either side of the border.



  1. Nations are built by people but people are divided by religions. I don’t care about divisions but it’s sad when one religion takes over an entire nation humiliating the minorities. Why can’t we see the similarities and coexist? I know about this biased view of Pakistanis from my Muslim friend who visits Saudi occasionally. I’m really surprised that even educated people have this notion of religious supremacy in their minds. We’re human first, aren’t we?

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    1. Nameera says:

      Totally! Even the educated people have such ideas. It feels as though it’s imbibed deep within them. Like, it’s in their code to simply hate. And not just Pakistani’s, even few Indians are like that. It’s sad to see this reality.

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      1. Let’s hope the next generation isn’t the same. For their own good.

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  2. It’s an eye opening post, really it is. I want to appreciate you for this bold step you have taken to write about this issue. It’s really frustrating to see all this hatred on the basis of religion and all. It’s so silly I think sometimes. We are all humans and we should live with love to each other, right ?

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    1. Nameera says:

      Thanks a lot! Yes, it’s outrageous to see people still dwelling on such stupid notions & mindsets. The fact is that we’re not ready to recognize each other as human beings, there’s always a label like Hindu, Muslim, e.t.c.

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      1. Yes there is and that’s the biggest problem. It’s high time that people realise all this things and stop such atrocities and live in peace and prosperity.

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      2. Nameera says:

        I completely agree.

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      3. Thank you 😊. What inspired you actually to write about this ?

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      4. Nameera says:

        My experiences did. I never quite understood biased views that people hold pertaining to this issue. Hence, I wanted to write about it.

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      5. That’s really a brave attempt Nameera. The thing is I don’t see people posting questionable topics like this one. Actually this should be the kind of posts that people should write about. It’s just my personal opinion. You did a wonderful job by expressing your views pertaining to it. I want to thank you for that 😊


  3. pedrol says:

    dear Nameera, it was really interesting to read your impressions 🙂 I feel sorry about the fact many times a country is governed based on hate and prejudice towards other people and cultures… I am from Portugal and, honestly, people here are not aware of such events… in a way, we are probably lucky for having such a peaceful country, but it brings us other problem, that is the fact that, in general, people don´t really bother about what happens in the other countries. that´s why is important for me to read blogs like yours and be aware of this reality! have a great week, regards from Lisbon, PedroL

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    1. Nameera says:

      I’m so glad to hear that you find it informative! It means a lot to me (: We do happen to ignore international relations until it’s related to our own respective countries.

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